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  • For the “main event” that’s normal.

    When people talk about sex lasting for much longer, that’s probably from when they go to the bedroom till when they fall asleep, take out their phones, or are just done for a while. That time will include foreplay and other stuff, which is great!

    It’s also some serious exertion, so you can include some cuddle breaks to pace yourselves and talk about what you’re enjoying, what you want to do next, and whisper sweet nothings.

    Presentation and thrusting should not last for two hours. That would be painful and exhausting for both participants. It would also be an indication of some problem such as that the condom is too tight







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    6 months ago

    Invite every trans person you know in your city to a discord with an 18+ chat.

    Get them to invite every trans person they know in the city to the discord.

    Post an invite link in local college Pride Lounges.

    Ask mods in more general LGBT locally-focused discords for permission to post an invite link stating that it is for trans people.

    Match with trans people on LGBT+ dating apps and invite them.

    March in your city’s Pride Parade and hand out business cards with a QR invite code.

    Then advertise a party.

    In 18 months I’ve gathered >460 trans people in my discord, over 10% of the trans population of my city!