Mine‘s getting so accustomed to cold showers that I a) absolutely do not mind cold water for swimming etc. anymore and b) could not enjoy warm or hot showers anymore. They just weren’t nice at all.

    • interrobang@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      8 days ago

      Lmao thank you

      My wife was poly when we first met, and I was new to it. We were monogamous for several years while we figured out how to be married successfully.

      A few years later, my wife made a friend online that was married and poly, and her life was just really similar to what we were looking for. Lots of friends, strong bonds, mutual support, and spicy sex lol.

      She and my wife dated for a while long-distance, and we actually moved somewhere both closer to her and with a larger poly community. It didn’t work out for them, but wife & i both liked how it felt to be poly together.

      I met my other partner thru my wife’s ex, lol. My girlfriend has a FWB type thing with wifeys ex, and we hit it off really well right away. Wife met her other partner and we are all, ahem, compatable!

      When that tv show about the Mormon guy with lots of wives came on, they made a point to specify that they do NOT all have sex together, and I was always like… why tf not!? (I know, I know, mormons, but c’mon)