• Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    19 days ago

    Good thing most porn bores us and worries us to tears. There is no consent seeking, connection, backstory, or slow burning in most porn, visual, auditory, or even written. We continue searching, but there’s very little that actual cares about these things.

    We watched some recently and we were amazed at how bad it really is, how scared or confused the actors were, it’s just… not good.

    Edit: In our opinion and experience doing things in real life with other real people (online included) is definitely better.

          • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            18 days ago

            Oh, what client do you use that won’t show you a bio? We have looked into many and they mostly seem to have that feature even when people have told us they don’t. What happens when you click on my name/image?

            Thank you! There’s a lot of hate towards us plural folk around lemmy, so it’s nice to see some celebration instead 🙂

            • vfsh@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              18 days ago

              we use voyager, just took a peek again and it only shows posts and comments and no option to view a profile. we’d love to try out other clients tho!

              we haven’t seen any others on lemmy yet and havent seen any hate for it yet but good to know~

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                18 days ago

                Eternity is very good in our experience if you’re looking for a recommendation!

                Ah, there’s some plural communities but not many plural groups in it, sadly. Yeah, be glad you haven’t. Those assholes are nasty.

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                  18 days ago

                  sweet, thanks for the recc!! this reply coming to you straight from eternity! -lily

      • Smorty [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        18 days ago

        im nt speakin against adult content on the lmmi bt i am speakin against the adult stuffsies in general, cuz apparntli som peeps watch it evriday, which… iduno, mayb thads nt a gud thng…

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          18 days ago

          To be blunt, it’s not your place to say what’s good or not for someone else. Especially something personal like viewing porn. We all have different approaches to sexuality. In addition, part of the fun of this community specifically is leaning into the loser/degenerate image in a humorous way. If that’s not your vibe that’s 100% ok but that is the purpose of this comm. Talking about loving porn and masturbating everyday is explicitly on topic here.

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    19 days ago

    Porn addiction like any other kind absolutely does exist. People can become unheathily addicted to anything…