Just came across this question on reddit and tbh…i don’t know

People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don’t know how to speak, i don’t smile often, i’m shy, i look very judgemental or i’m just too egotistic…so i don’t know if i’m actually someone worth hanging out with

And no i didn’t make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

I don’t know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don’t really hold back against me

So what about y’all?

  • piskertariot@lemmy.world
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    13 days ago

    No. I get introduced to people who are “like me” and I don’t like them off the hop.

    I recently hung out with my own father, and when he would say words that were in my head, they sounded awful.

    People like me. I have friends. I like my friends. But I do question their judgement being friends with me.

    • sbv@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      1·
      13 days ago

      I recently hung out with my own father, and when he would say words that were in my head, they sounded awful.

      Yeah. I get that with some of my family members. I try to use it as an opportunity to be more open and learn to like myself more, but it rarely works. I’d prefer it if they didn’t act the way I think.