I don’t really dream. It’s extremely rare to the point where I’ll have a handful in a year and I don’t remember them. Waking up with an emotional reaction to an odd dream inspired by life events or entertainment… Then the details slip away from me and I can’t even talk to anyone about the experience.

What’s it like for you?
Do you enjoy, dislike or analyze your dreams?
Is it really a window to the subconscious for you?

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    Is like a movie that is injected into your brain, but randomly generated by AI (aka: it make zero sense and random as fuck).

    Then just as things get interesting, someone wake you up and flash the Men In Black memory eraser thing and you’re like: “What the fuck was that? I think I had a dream, but I forgor”

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    Dreaming is like reality, but far from reality. Regardless, you accept it anyway. It looks so close to reality, yet many nonsensical things can happen. I recently had one which featured astral projection and trippy visuals. The stretching of hallways, the breaking of physics.

    Foreign realms which often feel quite familiar.

    Also–do your own research, but… this might interest you.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Artemisia_vulgaris

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oneirogen

    Mugwort is known as an oneirogen. These are a class of substances known to produce vivid dreams.They are not psychoactive to any degree. I use them very, very infrequently, but they do work for me. As far as I understand, it’s diminishing returns for repeated use. If you use them daily, they stop working. Mugwort has worked for everyone I know who’s tried it, and I’d imagine it’s hard for placebo to occur here. Note that this is far from a scientifically defined class of substance–most descriptions of their effects are anecdotal. That said, they are extremely unlikely to be harmful, if that’s even at all possible.

    If this is an active point of interest for you, it certainly can’t hurt to read into it. Hope this all helps!

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        I haven’t tried tea, but smoking works if that doesn’t. I’d assume you want to drink the tea about an hour before bed to ensure effects take hold at the right time. You won’t notice any effect while awake. It should have mild sleep support properties, though. Also interesting is that it’s reported to work by being placed under the pillow.

        Thujone is an involved compound that’s worth mentioning. In very large amounts (and I mean a catastrophic 3g+ of pure compound for myself), it becomes toxic–but typical doses are very, very far below this. Imagine how much 3g of the compound is, and how much compound is actually contained in the material.

        Hope this all helps!

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          I didn’t plan anything with this post but I feel like I’m going to be chasing the experience of getting a dream. Even a lucid dream.

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            Good luck, and stay safe! Please do get back–people’s experiences will help me with my project (a work featuring dozens upon dozens of psychoactives/medicines/therapy options). Reports will help me provide better, more diverse information to people.

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    I used to have vivid awesome dreams when I was a kid and some scary ones as well, as an adult I am in the same boat as OP, handful of dreams a year that I even register and I forget almost everything once I wake up. And the worst part is most of my dreams seem related to my daily worries, like even in my dreams I can’t escape my anxiety. I remember an amazing dream I had as a kid where I could fly, it felt so real, it was like entering into a futuristic simulation.

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    There are many kinds of dreams, each with a different sensation.

    • There’s vivid nightmares which leave you in a state of panic, often unable to go back to sleep due to a hyper focus on every little sound and touch.
    • There’s action dreams which give you an adrenaline rush and a state of random anger.
    • There’s emotional dreams which leave you as an empty shell, crying or full of longing for something out of reach.
    • There’s horny dreams which leave a puddle in your bed.
    • And there’s also happy dreams which fill you up with joy and leave you refreshed and full of love for life.

    Of course there’s also the forgotten dreams which can be anything, but don’t really matter to you because you can’t remember having them. But they often leave behind the feeling you’re supposed to be doing something, which can drive you crazy during the day.

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      I got an emotional dream a few months ago. Woke up feeling a wreck and distraught while having no idea why. Very frustrating.

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        Yeah, I lose a day being on low energy every time it happens. But the subconscious dreams what it wants, regardless of an attempt to influence. We can give a scenario through our activities before going to sleep, but they tend to stretch out on their own even so.

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      Also the dreams that feel like distant memories and can sometimes be difficult discerning if they really happened or not

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    For those who don’t dream much, I’m curious of your surrounding sleep habits and how much you’ve looked into changing your habits. This could be a big indicator you’re not getting into REM sleep, which is not good.

    Do any of you drink alcohol, take other prescribed substances (or not prescribed)?

    Have you tried eating foods rich in magnesium or taking magnesium supplements?

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      I have woken up aware that I dreamt perhaps a half dozen times in my adult life.

      Alcohol: no

      Medicine: no

      Drugs: no

      Never tried loading magnesium.

      Terrible sleep hygiene.

      Comfy bed, dark room.

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        Does that include no coffee/caffeine in afternoon?

        What temperature is your room?

        Do you have a watch or device that passively monitors Heart-rate variability?

        On average what do you eat before bed and how long before sleep?

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          Caffeine addicted. It is a problem.

          Room is low 70s (23C?).

          No device.

          Big dinner at 8, bed at 11 or 12. Sleep quickly if no phone.

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            I am definitely caffeine addicted, too. Best I can manage usually is to taper off the caffeine coffee by noon and transition to green tea, then ginger tea later. Seems to help!

            Temp seems good; that’s about what mine is.

            If possible, consider a big lunch and reduce size of dinner and/or dial it back by an hour. Be extra cautious of deep-fried, high sodium, or high acidic foods (tomato-based sauces like spaghetti or pizza, mayo, etc.).

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    It’s fun until someone cuts your arm with a sword during medieval battle, you wake up but you can’t move and can’t feel your arm so you lay on the battlefield for a while.

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    For me personally it’s a bit like… the creation of memories. And the synthesis of what I like to call “ambient feelings” – like vibes or atmospheres people, places or situations give off. A lot of layered emotions, a lot superpositions, where something or someone is multiple things at the same time. “Chimeras”, which are blends of people I know for example.

    Then the details slip away from me and I can’t even talk to anyone about the experience.

    That’s normal. I swear that my dreams are really detailed sometimes, but the memories become muddy the more I think about them.

    Is it really a window to the subconscious for you?

    Yes. I take my dreams very serious. They are weird and hard to describe, sometimes they are cruel in a way. I consider myself a pretty reflected person, but from time to time my dreams show me stuff I don’t want to admit to myself.

    That said, I love dreaming. Reality is rigid and boring. I like to imagine we live and absorb impressions only so our brains can dream. Which is bullshit :D but I enjoy the thought.

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    To answer out of order, I don’t analyze them. I don’t think there’s really any reason to.
    Sometimes it can be a window to the subconscious, but it’s mostly just random things.

    It’s really hard to answer what it’s like. I dream very frequently and quite often vividly. What it’s like varies so much night by night. Lately, for maybe the past three weeks, I’ve been having one nightmare after the next after the next. For me, I tend to enjoy the scarier dreams that deal with “monster movie” plots. Zombies, clowns, ghosts, etc. Those are fun for me because they’re not real irl, so it’s easier to enjoy.

    The problem I’m having right now is that these nightmares are too real and too targeted. “Nobody likes you” or bleeding out or being alone or getting cancer. Just all the horrible things my brain can do to make me wake up miserable, I guess.

    When I’m stressed, I have a set of reoccurring themes that makes it easier to identify as a stress dream and therefore not be as effected by the events or emotions in the dream. Themes are: tsunamis, bears, brakes failing, or physical abuse.

    One of the greatest problems I have after dreaming so vividly my whole life, is that I’m terrified that my brain will flip a switch when certain situations arise. For example, I’ve often dreamed about drowning. As in I’m in a pool or lake or ocean and for some reason am unable to get air. So I start panicking and doing anything I can. As I finally can’t take it anymore, I gasp for the air that isn’t there and… Huh. I can breathe water? It takes a bit, but inevitably the dream says look at you, you’ve always been able to breathe water, you just never tried.. So when it comes to the real world, I’m terrified that if there’s a situation where I need to hold my breath for a while underwater, my brain is going to just lean into the many lessons learned and tell me to just breathe and it’ll be fine, because I’ve always been able to breathe water, duh.

    So. None of that probably answers your question. But it’s such an esoteric and personal and varied thing from person to person. Or from week to week within a single person.

    If you do want to dream more, try to keep a little notebook on your nightstand and when you wake up with these dreams you rarely have, write them down. It clues your brain in to start remembering them more and then you will start to truly dream.

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      Sometimes I’m glad I don’t dream considering nightmares and overthinking the meaning of things.

      What I’ll say about not dreaming is life feels more mundane.

      Wake, self care (brush teeth, shower, eat), work, chores, brainrot, sleep.

      I feel like even bad dreams would shake things up more.

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    I don’t dream much either, according to sleep studies. Do you have a sleep disorder and/or smoke weed?

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      I don’t do drugs. Even skipping pain meds for a bad back. No real reason I just dislike pills. Drug free for work reasons.

      I tend to sleep 4-5 due to overwork. Even if I have 8-9 hours free my internal clock wakes me up at night.

      The times I dream are often when I take a 30min-2hr nap.

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    Very often I’ll have a repeat dream, or a dream about a previous dream. Then I lose track of which was the original dream

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    You dream every night, everyone does. You just don’t remember the dreams on waking.

    IDK about windows to the subconscious but if I have an interesting or recurring dream, sometimes I try to interpret it, and have gotten some things out of doing that.

    Maybe there is some gadget that can detect when you are dreaming. You wouldn’t want to have it wake you automatically on a regular basis (disrupting sleep isn’t always avoidable, but it isn’t good). But you could try it once or twice and see if you remember the dream then.

    Dreaming is also called REM (rapid eye movement) sleep, because people’s eyeballs jerk around during that sleep phase. Usually the jerking is pretty random. Once during a sleep study, a guy’s REM suddenly changed to very rhythmic, repeated side to side movements. That was weird enough that the researcher woke him and asked him what he had been dreaming about. The answer: playing ping pong. The eye movements had tracked the ball going back and forth.

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      I’m sure a sleep lab might have some equipment to track your eyes for REM.

      When I nap my Fitbit shows “deep sleep” for my heart rate vs light sleep and a little rem

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    I used to dream better when I was younger and even took control of a few them. Now I’m pretty much like you, it’s rare if I even remember one.

    A couple were probably windows to my subconscious like the nightmares that involved me waking up sure that nukes were about to strike or the ones about tornadoes attacking me.