• Nanook@lemmy.zip
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      1 month ago

      For me it was my ex. Gaslit the shit out of everyone. When I tried talking about it with friends the ol’ “that doesn’t sound like her”. Felt so alone. Escaped her abuse eventually. Hope you’re safe 🙏

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        I know it was 9 hours ago but I’ve had multiple exs in the past that Gaslit the fuck out of me and everyone else. My own family thought for the longest time when I would bring up the problems™ I would get the similar “that doesn’t sound like something she would do” :/ the past few years I’ve lucked into a very healthy polycule tho.

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        Whenever I hear people say something like that, I try to remind people, no one sees all sides of someone, especially how they are in private with other people.