• uhmbah@lemmy.ca
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    8 days ago

    This. If your partner is jealous, you’re not the problem. If they can’t work through it with you, walk.

    People with trust issues are exhausting. Make sure they’re worth it without losing yourself.

    Signed, Experienced

    • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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      7 days ago

      My SO gets super jealous/anxious, probably because of all the horror stories in the news. Having access to my location would only make that worse, because then every time I drop a coworker off at home or something and forget to tell my SO, they’ll get super suspicious.

      I’d much rather work off trust than need to explain every little deviation from my normal schedule just to avoid some anxiety.