Discovered in 2021, they’re the most cunning of the dark triads as they have the cognitive empathy that narcissists and psychopaths lack and this makes them the most manipulative and destructive individuals you could meet.

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    12 days ago

    Dark empaths sounds like something made up to make life seem more dramatic and mysterious

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    12 days ago

    I mean, I’ve been able to live my life so far without concerning myself with such things so I’d probably keep doing whatever the hell I’m currently doing.

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    12 days ago

    If something was discovered in 2021, wouldn’t it be confirmed to exist?

    I should stress I do not believe in the concept in the way so many others conceptualize it. You slap a label like “dark triad” on a situation and suddenly the expectations go from “remember the human” to “classic Bond villain”. “Good” and “evil” are alignments as opposed to inclinations. And your limits can only influence how you walk the path to the destiny you choose. So if this was all “confirmed”, it would have no bearing on me. I know many people diagnosed under the dark triad system and most of them fight to be good people in their own way.

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    12 days ago

    I see you found my sister.

    We are like absolute polar opposites, she and I. I’m particularly susceptible to this trait. Loyalty is my main defense. I’m quick to trust anyone, but give me any reason to doubt and I will always keep you at a distance.

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    12 days ago

    As an empath I did feel that someone with the same skill but with nefarious/selfish intentions could be quite destructive on society so I’m not surprised about this.

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    12 days ago

    Maybe the confusion is in things called empathy. One of them autistic people lack, another of them psychopaths and (true, as opposed to pseudo-narcissism one can find among autistic people) narcissists lack.

    What you describe seems to be psychopaths. Or you mean some kind of people able to fully feel what psychopaths can’t, but turn it off as needed? I dunno.

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      12 days ago

      Autistic people don’t lack empathy. I learned that as a kid too and it was a real barrier to getting diagnosed, because there are few qualities I more obviously possess than empathy.

      Autistic people and allistic people use different signals to show their emotional state, so it’s easier for autistic people to interpret the emotions of fellow autistic people (and vice versa).

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        12 days ago

        The other guy answered you.

        There’s empathy like “theory of mind” to understand others, and there’s empathy like “compassion”. It’s not hard to see that these are completely different things.