Please consider posting your content directly on Lemmy, especially if you’re going through a tough time and want comments ❤️. Use an alt account if your prefer

Removed by mod

Earrings are great. Lobe piercings are among the easiest to manage. And you can change jewelry often to get the right level of masc/femme you’re looking for (e.g., studs, dangly). I find rose gold more femme than yellow gold, but finding the right jewelry colour for your skin tone (yellow gold, rose gold, silver or white gold) also looks femme. I like basic “huggies” earrings. They’re feminine without being obviously feminine, and they’re very low maintenance - easy to sleep with, never have to take them out. Once you get comfy with your lobes pierced, try a second set of lobe piercings :P

Basic (e.g., black rope) anklet is an option.

I’d like to find a choker necklace that can be worn in my he/they mode

Thank you for posting this