• RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    17 hours ago

    If you get married the tradition is for one partner to change their last name to match so both have the same last name.

    We didn’t do that, so we have different last names.

    So when you sign up for services that offer (x) months free or discounted cost per unique household, you use one name, cancel, and sign up under the other name. They don’t know you’re married, don’t know if it’s a rental, or don’t know if it’s a roommate thing. So when we were poor AF we could save a lot of $ on services at least for a few months or so. Usually cable tv that offered a 6-month discount.

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      7 hours ago

      Where I live you can freely use your maiden name or your spouse’s name and switch between them whenever you want.

      We didn’t like either of our last names so before getting married I legally changed mine so my Spouse could adopt it after the wedding, instead of both of us legally changing it after the wedding.

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      10 hours ago

      Even with the same last name they don’t know you’re married. We share a last name and have done this a few times before.