Half of the time I look forward to my death, it doesn’t scare me since I don’t see the real point of my life, what scares me is if my agony would be slow and painful.

But then what? I just stop existing and it’s like I fell asleep? Do I see light? Darkness? Nothing? What is nothing?

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    Nothing. Was in the hospital for a heart attack last year, my heart stopped for 8 seconds. I was 100% completely unaware. Was told later what had happened.

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    The mind is what the brain does .

    When the brain stops doing, the mind stops being.

    There is no darkness, there isn’t even nothing, because there’s no you to experience it.

    Where do the ripples on a pond go if the water dries up? There are no ripples, because there’s no longer a pond for them to be on.

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      There is no darkness, there isn’t even nothing, because there’s no you to experience it.

      It’s such a weird concept to get our heads around but this is it, and I personally find it quite comforting. It’s just very hard to explain why!

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    When you die, your brain dumps dopamine and you enter a euphoric state in the brief moments before you’re technically dead.

    Time is relative for every entity, according to the theory of general relativity. I posit that as you die, your personal timeline extends to infinity. The state of euphoria is therefore permanent to you, the experiencer. It’s not heaven, but for you it might feel like it.

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      Additionally, every neuron fires as your brain gives out, so during that personal eternity your life is “flashing before your eyes”. If this reflection on your life fills you with contentment, that is heaven. If it fills you with shame and regret, that is hell.

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    Either of two things:

    Nothing. However, I don’t think most people quite grasp the meaning of that. Kind of how they think that before the big bang there was just empty space. No, empty space is not nothing. There’s no empty space, there’s no time, there’s nothing. By definition it cannot be experienced. Experience simply ends. It’s as if nothing ever happened. The universe could just as well have never existed.

    The more optimistic theory is that consciousness is in a way immortal. You can only experience being, not not-being. It’s kind of how when you go under general anesthesia and then wake up it’s quite unlike sleeping. When you’ve slept you have the sense of time having passed in between. With general anesthesia this is not the case. One moment you feel sleepy and then you wake up in another room. From your subjective experience you never lost consciousness to begin with. Whose to say that something similar doesn’t happen with death. Instead of experience ending it just moves elsewhere. It’s a pretty difficult concept to explain but it’s somewhat similar to the idea of quantum immortality.

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    What I think or what I hope?

    I think it will be just like before I was born. I will become nothing.

    I hope that I’m wrong and I will be reunited with my loved ones.

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    When you die you simply wake up in the nearest universe where you didn’t die.

    Death is an objective event. It never happens subjectively.

    In everyone else’s experience, you die. Your body becomes a corpse and you are no longer there.

    In your own experience, you don’t die. The gun doesn’t fire. The car crash never happens. You somehow walk away from the train derailment. Your cancer clears up.

    Death exists for other people, never for the self.

    Eventually, you become the only living human. You are eternal.

    After millions of years, you accumulate enough power to create new people. You do this so you don’t have to be alone. You are now God.

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    The game will be over, I will remove the VR headset, and continue living my real life. I’m sure in time the memories will fade.

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    I don’t know what - if anything- comes after. But I do like the Buddhist analogy of death being like a wave falling back into the sea. The wave is gone but the matter and energy that constituted it survives and are eventually repurposed for the formation of another wave. Or a bird, or a tree, or some other part of the natural world.

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    My wife and I have discussed contingency plans for what to do if there’s an afterlife. If one of us ends up in a good place and the other in a bad place, we’re both determined to do whatever is necessary to meet in ideally a middle place or whichever place will take both of us otherwise. If we become spirits that walk the earth unseen by mortals, we’ll meet in the desert where we had our wedding. If we are forced to reincarnate, we will attempt to bargain to reincarnate as the same species within a small enough geographical distance that we can likely meet again.