• 1SimpleTailor@startrek.website
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    I don’t want to overstate this, but some liberation can come from within.

    Yeah, we all have to play their game, but internalizing the values our sick society places on us is optional. Make peace with the things you alone cannot immediately change. Resist in the small ways you are able, find joy where you can, and do what you can for the people you care about. Free your mind and your ass will follow.

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    2 hours ago

    Just here trying to create an emotional and practical safe zone for myself, family, and my friends, and fuck the rest of 'em

  • myusernameis@lemmy.ca
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    So I went through a very dark place a few years back. Anxiety, depression and PTSD led me to the conclusion that “life is hard and always will be and that in the whole of human history we are all insignificant”.

    But with the help of a great therapist (and some meds) I was able to append “so I might as well have fun”.

    So I try to find joy wherever I can. So yes to doing things, fight my cynical side, make friends, dress weird, dance, party, be my (weird fun happy) self, allocate zero fucks to the haters and all to love to the people that matter.

    I still fight the system where I can, but mostly by trying to make other’s lives happier. Let the billionaires be rich miserable assholes, we’re too busy dancing slutty to care.

  • Sixty@sh.itjust.works
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    3 hours ago

    I refuse to have children in response to what I see with my own eyes. No thanks to my parents for making me exist.

  • Lenny@lemmy.world
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    4 hours ago

    Reading history books for greater context. Shit always finds a new flavor of fucked, apparently.

    And drinking a boatload.

    • ivanafterall ☑️@lemmy.world
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      1 hour ago

      This can also backfire. It’s frustrating to see history repeating itself so clearly over and over again, while being utterly powerless to really change it.

    • 4lan@lemmy.world
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      I wish so hard that I could believe. Just lie to myself forever, When you die it’s not like you find out…

  • bitwolf@sh.itjust.works
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    12 hours ago

    Preparing myself for the world Titor predicted. Small communities.

    Learning to homestead as best I can as a renter. Lots of raised beds and planter bags.

    I only buy things to support my hobbies. Saving up for land and a prefab home so I can go completely independent.

    I don’t want to worry if critical food gets expensive again.

    • CheeseNoodle@lemmy.world
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      Climate change is really fucking that idea up here in Scotland.

      Our ecosystem relies on now non-existant snowy winters to reset the pest and fungus population every year, instead we get mild winters and summer that have no actual rain to water plants yet are so humid that everything is permamently damp, pests and fungi ramp up year on year and plants that used to grow fine here (Talking potatoes and even some native trees) are struggling. I’d say a full half of the non-confierous trees near my house have started dying in the last 2 years.

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      I would have tried this so hard a long time ago but there is basically 2 things keeping me in the shackles: dentists & hospitals.

      How do you deal with that?

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    I say “thank goodness I don’t live in China, or worse.” Then I go back to trying to improve my life.

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    I organize and build relationships in my community. Everyone has something to offer and something they need. It isn’t always immediately obvious what those things are, so it’s nice to have an existing network when you figure it out. Get together. Have potlucks. Share your skills, knowledge, tips, tricks and resources.

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      I doubt you actually do any of that. Lovely vague community esque language. Oh have a potluck and effect great societal change! Give me a break. Hapy olidays!

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        11 hours ago

        I mean, I can’t prove it to you so you can just believe it or not. I definitely didn’t mean to imply that I’m making some “great societal change”. That’s not an attainable goal. The question was about how I deal with the state of the world. For me, my anxiety was peaking in the early days of the pandemic and the political situation in the US. I was just doomscrolling all day. Finally I decided that I just needed to do something/anything. I contacted a local mutual aid group in my area and started helping distribute hot meals around my area. I did that for about 2 years, twice a week. I have gone on to do more organizing (food, politics, skill shares) with some of the people I met there, and have expanded my network of like-minded friends. It has helped my mental health immensely.

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      Eventually it stops working. I’ve been blowing through ounces faster than I ever have, feel like I barely get high anymore

      • 2ugly2live@lemmy.world
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        Same here. I’m actually forcing myself to stop. It’s expensive and I get high for shorter and shorter times. I’m trying to make it to spring, but we’ll see.