• abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    I was in that state 10 years ago. Something good did happen and I’m happy I stuck around for it. It was worth all the misery. In fact, the misery raises the value of all the good things.

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      3 days ago

      Did you do something for it happen? Because sometimes I think “Nothing changes, if nothing changes” is true and but then again I get tired of doing things, I’ll spiral back to “I’ll just stick around” mood.

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        2 days ago

        Yes, I changed a lot of things, but I also met a lot of wonderful people that made my life much better.
        I do believe that you have to take action. I kinda love being lazy, but I never feel particularly good after an entire day on the couch. The more I do, the more I accomplish, the better I feel.