That i wake up to find my husband is dead beside me and i slice him open, climb inside, and hide there until someone takes us both away.

The music in the show Slow Horses sounds like my fridge door is open. Drove us crazy!

Is ok to ask for an AMEN now and then.

Maybe he’s trying a non-antiperspirant deodorant? There are several brands and some work better than others. You could start start that discussion with him?

I think my dad’s family got cheese. I assumed it was because they were native American. I don’t remember ever trying it - i just saw a couple of big blocks that said CHEESE on a shelf.

I mentioned that i had concerns about myself when i was about 12. It wasn’t dismissed, but it was clear that attempting to address it at that time would be too difficult. I keep it put away as much as i can, only mentioning the intrusive thoughts when i can play it as a joke - not sure if that feels better or worse. After 40 years, I’m finally beginning to recognize the tendency towards self sabotage but still struggle with not giving in to it.