We all perceive ourselves as the main character, and that leads some people to think bad accidents won’t happen to them

  • DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works
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    50 minutes ago

    I haven’t died yet.

    Therefore: I AM IMMORTAL!

    Brb, I’m gonna sit under a tent that says “PROVE ME WRONG” so I can debate people.

  • IWW4@lemmy.zip
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    35 minutes ago

    The truth is, we all really do go through life thinking that the bad shit happens to someone else until it happens to us.

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    12 hours ago

    My username comes from “pemptagonist,” the fifth most important character in a play (after protagonist, deuteragonist, etc). I thought it was funny, but maybe there’s something in that because I don’t trust my luck one bit.

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    We actually are the main character. We can only perceive the universe through the data our senses collect. We are each a ghost trapped in a meat sack, standing on a rock, hurtling through the universe. You are wholly incapable of seeing the universe through someone else’s perspective. The best you can do is analyze the data you’ve collected through your own senses and try to guess what someone else is experiencing.

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      19 hours ago

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      This. Don’t ever let anyone ever convince you that you’re an NPC in your life. You may not be someone else’s main character, but that’s okay. You are yours.

      ~Believe me when I say there is nothing more debilitating than losing your sense of self in your life.~

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    19 hours ago

    I’ve never thought I was the main character, logic always suggested I was one of billions lol. But, I came close or technically died multiple times. I’m actually starting to worry I might be the luckiest man alive and it’s only if I keep -metaphorically- getting hit by lightning. 🤬

  • UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works
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    19 hours ago

    So one of my favorite books is Ender’s Game (fuck the author though). Which makes Ender the main charecter. But another one by him that I also really love is Ender’s shadow. Where it takes on of the lesser characters and makes them the main charecter.

    So, we all are the main character. Just depends on the perspective.

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      18 hours ago

      I think it’s clear by the end of Ender’s Game that Ender was never the main character (his realization of that drives a lot of his character development in the following books). And Bean is not really the main character in that part of the story either, just someone much smarter who better understands what’s going on and who the real players are.

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      19 hours ago

      I also love Ender’s Game and Ender’s Shadow. Shame about the authour. Point of view sequels are great. I’ve been reading a great fanfiction retelling the Harry Potter books from Hermione’s point of view, six books are out so far

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    16 hours ago

    Some people are more reckless and others more fearful. Both can be productive, but it’s wiser (as it usually is), to pull yourself towards the middle.

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    19 hours ago

    So, it may seem like tragedies happen just to other people.

    Of course you are the protagonist of your life, but the chances are, you’re still “other people” to other people.